- Nobody should care about what someone else’s partner looks likeI am heavy on this one! DISCLAIMER: Now, if you are one of my friends and I said your ex-boyfriend was ugly. He was because he decided to treat you wrong, and I don’t stand for that.In cases like this, I do think that someone’s significant other is ugly, but in general, nobody should really be commenting on other people’s partners’ looks. Like if the baddie wants to date the book nerd,okay? Like, if they love each other and develop this deep connection, why do you care? I’ve had guys I liked, and I have people who decided to comment on them and their appearances. I remember I showed a guy to one of my friends at the time, and she told me no because he was ugly! I was like, um, so you know nothing about him. It wasn’t even a comment about he is a bad person, or she doesn’t like his vibe. It went straight to his looks. I think we emphasize looks too much sometimes, like I understand that we are initially attracted to someone’s looks, but let’s not comment so quickly on others’ partners. Plus i rather you not be attracted to my boyfriend, like he is MINE FOR A REASON.
- Do you like bugs?
- Do you like to sweat?
- Do you like bears?
If you answered no to any of these, you don’t like camping or the risk of it. This is mostly satirical, but also not really… I just don’t see the pleasure in it. Granted, I have been a total of one time, and it was for Girl Scouts, and that’s where I learned I hated the great outdoors. I guess now that I am typing this, it is a personal opinion, BUT I REALLY DISLIKE IT, so I will claim it as a hot take. The most nature I can handle is the beach and walks outside my neighborhood. But hiking? Absolutely not. The last time I went was on a trip to Arkansas with my friends, and that was terrible for the simple reasons of i was promised a waterfall where I could take cute pics (it was dried up), and also when we left, Astin suddenly
discovered a shortcut (we could have taken that way up there, but he forgot). It’s one of those activities I cannot suck up and hide my face; I am suffering greatly.
I don’t need to get too deep into this, but the worst condiment of all time. I am fearful of it. Please don’t feed it to me.
This one is probably the most unpopular on this list, but I don’t see too much of the hype with him.
Like, I have a couple of his songs on my playlist, but the hype around him I don’t understand. Him in one direction, perfect, I was a Directioner! I loved their music, but Harry as a solo artist, I’m not sure, I just can’t get around! This is not me hating on him, I just feel like maybe he is attractive? His music, I think, is just ok.
agreed with everything up until the mayo….. you just gonna have the sandwich dry???
no sauce no nothin???
what about an aioli??
ok an aioli i actually enjoy, but it’s something about just mayo i cannot! also i don’t awlasy go for a cold sandwhich
Honestly, your hot takes aren’t that different from my mindset. I agree with you don’t have to tell your friends everything. I slipped up and told my friend something about my partner out of frustration; now she uses that as a kind of joke and looks down on my partner, which I hate but is completely my fault. Also big one on HARRY like I don’t think he’s allat. But, I did really enjoy and replay that fine line album lol. Lastly, MAYO IS DELICIOUS!!!
I’ve done the same thing too! However, I don’t think it’s “your fault” I don’t know about your partner, but you said that in a moment of anger (normal human reaction), your friend should not keep throwing it in your face! People mess up! Maybe I am missing pieces from this situation? However, from what you wrote, not your fault and it’s totally normal to rant about things to frienfds, but when they throw it in your face, that is when it can become a problem. It’s not fun to hear 🙁 especially if your partner is not like that generally.
all of these are VALIDD except mayo. mayo is awesome. but other than that holy cow i totally get it WHY ARE WE SCARED OF DOUBLE TEXTING?? i swear it’s the nonchalance epidemic… anyways i love your posts always ❤️
no doubt here—
you have to have boundaries with everyoneeeeee, and i agree with everyone else mayo is great if you pair it just right;)
also doubling texting is perfectlyyyyyyy fine, i would want someone feeling comfortable double texting me if not i am not doing my job right as a human being